To
read A Study of Divorce at Midlife and Beyond conducted
for AARP, the magazine, click
here.
Quote of the Week
"When
two people decide to get a divorce, it isn't a sign that they "don't
understand" one another, but a sign that they have, at last,
begun to." Helen Rowland
Simple
yet powerful life lessons of stress relief and relaxation through
incredible
stories,anedotes and metaphor.
...admit
to yourself that
you are where you are—in a place of uncertainty or confusion
or doubt, in a time of reevaluation and reassessment, in a process
of transformation and rebirth. From HOW DID I GET HERE by
Barbara de Angelis
Divorce Headquarters
If
you are still going through a divorce, this site pretty much provides
all the information you need.
Welcome to Finding Life (and Love...) After Divorce
Divorce
stinks. There is no other way to put it. Several years ago,
I felt the same way when my marriage of over
twenty years came to an end for
reasons I still
do not understand. After
several months of moping and looking for shoulders to lean on, I
decided that moving
on with my life was a better choice.
Divorce
can be the start of a new, exciting time, even
if it is the end of life as you
have
known
it for the last few years. Since my own breakup, I have become
an avid motorcyclist, found a new, wonderful partner, completed
a
12,000
km tour of Canada
and the US on my new bike, and started several websites. Life is
good!
This
site is intended to help others through this difficult time and provide
articles and resources that support the notion that divorce does
not have to be the end; it can be a new beginning. Hopefully, it
will help provide you with the confidence to find a new life (and
maybe even a new love) regardless of your age. If you have stumbled
across this site and have never been married or divorced, you might
discover something interesting anyway!
Grab a coffee and
look around.
It Just Doesn't Matter!
The
book that started it all! After
going through my own divorce, I wrote a short e-book about my post-divorce
experiences and starting over. This is a sometimes serious, sometimes
light-hearted look at beginning over again later in life. From
dealing with the ex to dating advice, I have covered a wide range
of topics. And as the title states, in the big scheme of things, "It
Just Doesn't Matter."
"You have inspired me greatly with your book, providing an easy to read and take-in message that I desperately needed to hear."
D.W.
Washington, D.C.
Another Great Site
I'm always looking for more easy-to-navigate sites packed with information about the divorce process; during and after.. The latest one I found is The Women's Divorce Blog. It is a helpfull source of news and information about divorce to help you navigate the divorce process and begin to rebuild your life. Learn about:
How to get a divorce
What to consider if you have children
How to get a grip on your emotions
Tips on making ends meet
And more
So
Who Are You?
If
you are recently divorced you are more than likely to fit
the following profile;
You
are in your fifties or sixties
You
probably divorced in your 40s
You
have a decent job
You
live in a metropolitan area
You
have children, and probably they are teenagers
There’s
a 50:50 chance this is your first divorce. If you have
been divorced before it probably occurred while you were
in your 20s
“Stepfamily
Talk” is
a radio show that’s
available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Hosted
by award-winning
authors Lisa Cohn and Jann Blackstone-Ford, “Stepfamily
Talk” provides innovative programming for divorced and
separated parents and stepfamilies. On the shows, Lisa and Jann
interview divorce and stepfamily experts who provide listeners
with helpful advice. In addition, their hosts chat with real
people about the challenges and joys of divorce and remarriage.
You don’t need special equipment to listen. Go to their
website and click on the arrow button above the title of the
show you’d like to hear!
While you are
there, ask for a free copy of their small e-book, "Top 12
Tips for Dating Single
Parents and Stepfamilies."
For more
links to podcasts on various topics related to divorce and
separation, please click here
""A positive attitude will not solve all the problems in the world, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort." - Unknown
Finances
Divorce
is always financially crippling to both spouses. The finance
section has links to many useful sites as well as online calculators
to help you make the best of your financial situation. Many articles
are also available to help you put your dollars and sense back together.
Loans Loans information and advice from money expert.
Copyright 2006. Finding Life After Divorce
- Steven LePoidevin
All Rights Reserved.
Box 1357, Princeton, BC
(250) 295-7580
