Dating Tips That Work- Which Of The Three Types Of Women Should You
Be Dating?
By John Alanis
When most "dating gurus" and sex therapists spout their dating tips,
they often complicate the whole process with unusable theory and psychobabble.
I’m going to bypass that, make it brain-dead simple for you, and most
importantly, reveal a few dating tips you can apply in the real world.
In these dating tips, I'm going to share with you the little-known concept
of the "three types of women.”
There's a wonderful book you should read called "Winning Through Intimidation" by
Robert Ringer. You can get it on Amazon for a few bucks (get the original
version published in the 1970's, not the new "touchy feely" one.) Many
people are turned off by the title, thinking it's about "scaring" people
into giving you what you want. That's not what it's about, though. It's
actually about protecting yourself from intimidation. It's also a fun
read, full of hilarious stories and even a few cartoons (of turtles wearing
sunglasses). But it's a book each and everyone looking for dating tips
needs to read, because the part I'm about to share with you absolutely
applies to interacting successfully and effortlessly with sexy women.
In the book, Ringer talks about the three types of people in the business
world- and in my experience he's 100% correct. Here they are. Type #1-
this is the guy who is out to get all your "chips" and lets you know
about it. This guy is "straightforward" about his intentions, what some
would call honest. Type #2 this is the guy who assures you he is not
out to get your "chips", and in fact, tells you he wants you to get everything
that is coming to you. Then he attempts to grab all your "chips" anyways.
Type #2's are the most treacherous type. Type#3: this is the guy who
assures you he is not out to get your chips, and sincerely means it,
but by his bumbling, stumbling or just pure incompetence he winds up
trying to take them anyways (even though he doesn't mean to). How do
the “three types” translate into a usable dating tip?
And, how does all of this relate to success with attracting sexy women?
Well, it's been my experience that women fall into, roughly, these three
types as well.
Type #1: she's straightforward with you about her intentions… whether
she's into "fun friends," or looking for a husband, she is forthright
with you up front. She knows herself and what makes her happy.
Type #2: this is the woman who appears to be straightforward with you
about what she wants… but for whatever reason, she's out to get your
money, deliberately break your heart, or she's just pissed at all men
-what a female friend of mine called a "cruel woman." Like the above
type #2, the operative word here is "treacherous."
Type #3: this is the woman who truly believes herself when she tells
you what she's looking for, but for whatever reason, bad things seem
to happen around her… she "self sabotages" whenever things are going
good, and winds up wreaking great emotional havoc on the men in her lives,
even though she doesn't mean to. The result is still the same as dealing
with a Type #2, though, and that’s why it’s vitally important you pay
close attention to the above dating tips.
Obviously you want to spend your time with the Type #1's (in business
and with women) and avoid the Type #2's. If you pay attention and listen
for her, what I call, map/model of the world, you can usually identify
the Type #2's. You'll hear things like "my last boyfriend was cheap,
he wouldn't take me out or buy me things." Or, things like, "I drove
by his house and a strange car was in the driveway… he was cheating on
me." Here is a dating tip that will save you time, money, and heartache:
when you hear things like this, run away FAST.
Type #3's can be more difficult to identify. It usually takes a lot
longer, and you have to pay careful attention. Listen for things like, "It
was going along so good, and I just don't know what happened."
Type #3's
are controlled by their "inner world," not in control of it. That's why
I usually recommend starting any relationship as just "fun friends" so
you can begin to get a clear picture of her map/model of the world and
pinpoint her Type. A lot of what appear to be Type #1's in the beginning
actually identify themselves as Type #3's later on down the line. You
can never stop paying attention, or you will get in trouble. Dating tips
like this one can be applied, and used day in and day out. Start paying
attention to this, and watch just how true this is. It's the difference
between happiness and misery!
About the Author: John Alanis, "The King of Let 'em Come to You", is
author of the "Women Approach You" system at http://www.womenapproachyou.com.
His blog is at http://www.johnalanis.com
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